This appears to some as amazing, interesting but to others as non-sense. Lets discuss about different kinds of love today. Mind you! these are all gathered experiences of others. Please leave me if you find that you are either the actor/actress. Or else do warn me before so that I will learn one good defensive art.
Different Categories
True Love: Contemporary times, one can find this only in films cutting across language barriers. But a good amount of it can be found in Mythologies too. A beautiful example is that of Rukmini Devi. Here the cast just falls into with the fair sex, can tolerate anything, does not mind what the other party does but just believes and LOVE LOVE LOVE . It is an ideal one, but in reality one should be extremely lucky to get something of this sort; If you find traces of it, just crosscheck if it is a TRASH LOVE instead of TRUE LOVE.
Conditional Love: Here the party has to take a number of initiatives. One has to buy so much of gifts, cards, flowers, bokays and many more interesting (to the other party as and when the situation demands) ones. Also one needs to see off the other at a variety of places like ports, airports , railports and even bus stations. To many, Occasional candle-light dinners, movies will become a norm than exception. But the best (worst) condition is that related to day to day work. More importantly all will go in vain if a few conditions are not met from time to time.
Arranged Love: Did you ever hear of match-fixing? This is quite similar to it. There are a few match-makers (match-breakers too) who implicitly direct the game. Both the batsman and the bowler play as if on their own but the hidden fact is that others are involved and the game goes on as per the wishes of a few who are not playing it. Irony is that just like any other fixing here also monetary terms get involved often. To some this is the best part as the game got decided long back and we can escape the responsibilities in the future.
Qualified Love: It can be classified differently by different people. But here one predominant qualifier is attached to one party and the other toes the line but when respected equally. No further conditions exist, no match-fixing but not true love. Again can it be called UNCONDITIONAL L? No.. but what if we name it as ONECONDITIONAL L........
PS: God ! Save me from all these and join me in finding a new category.
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Love is God’s gift, Not an Obligation!
Love is not just what we happen to feel for the opposite sex (or for the same sex, considering this ‘coz it is popular these days) of any particular age.
Love is what we show as compassion to our fellow beings, share with animals and birds, and most importantly what we feel when we wake up early to feel this blissful naturality, the Nature.
Love is what we show to our parents, siblings (‘coz if you have a sister she wouldn’t spare you if you forget her), friends, kith and kin. Love is what you do to perfect strangers. Like the help that you’re trying to provide to fellow aspirants through your blog… (Nice work, prashanth. But go beyond just basics).
Love is so synonymous to Compassion, Passion, Affection..!
It’s you who’d mentioned in one of your post that You joined service ‘coz you’re passionate about it. Even this is Love. “Love to serve your Nation.”
Having said the above there is one thing that I want to confide..
Man, I never took time out of my not-so-busy lifestyle to do the kind of research that you did on LOVE. I appreciate your work and look forward to see that you notice love in every possible angle. Than just in a straight line.
My regards.
hmm ! good one ! Here I am a bit more specific ; hope u understand that :D
Yeah, i knew you would come up with this explanation as a reply. But didn't expect you would take such a long time... Prashanth, i think, i was myself specific by saying (wondering though..!) that you have done a good research. Now what makes me wonder is "Why does prashanth have to post this when he doesn't love to LOVE?"
Ofcourse, Nowz then, am too talking about the specific kind of .... that you've posted about..!
Let me share this chweet memory -- I saw my father love my mother till his last breath. Am telling you this, 'coz my Mr. Dad loved my Mom when he was 26 or so. After speaking to her for sometime, he liked her innocence, that he instantly proposed to her. Mom was too shy. She didn't even know that she loved him too... That's the level of her innocence. For eight years, my dad waited just for her reciprocation. I can easily recollect his words -- Love is a sweet simple feeling that has the power to do anything!
Not more to it nor less...
Born to such a wonderful understanding man who was, i must mention, he was successful in his professional life aswell; i can't stand when people have such an opinion on Love.
Please take no offence, 'coz itz nothing personal.
hey prasanth i know u but not directly thorugh a friend.. i really adore u r principles...one day u find a girl who loves,values u so much..how many ppl are there sticking to look out for love(kotla kosam paakuladakunda) ..andaru matches fix chestunnaru but u r waiting 2 find a girl with whom u can relate,share..kshanallo manasulu ela kalustayi??(koncham matladali..need 2 know abt each kada)i completely agree with u r views..tondara padi compromise avvaddu...one day u will find u r girl...paradox is life lo oke views vunnavaallu kalavatam kashtam...anduke late..but one day u will succeed... nee kosam prardhinche oka ammayi:) (leka pote manchiki ee prapanchamlo chotu migaladu)and nee lanti vaallanu neenu cinemaallone chusanu...glad nee gurinchi vinnanduku...ilanti abbailu kuda ee world lo vuntaara?? anukunna...u r a real hero.. nuvvu carreer lo succeed ayinatle.. nee personal lifelo kuda nuvu korukunnade dakkalani aashistu ..ninnu abhimaaninche oka ammayi...:)
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